We have all been there, trying to fit in, either in schools or colleges, maybe university? or even currently at work? whichever one, they provide good examples of us trying to fit in. Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with this, it is understandable to want to fit in especially in our teen years where at that age our social networks are full of peer pressure and all we want is some sense of belonging. However the problem begins when instead of trying to fit in we yearn to fit in and belong because we don’t want any part of our identity.
I am sure many parents can sympathise with this, but this is no longer an issue of ‘puberty’ and ‘hormones’ or even ‘normality’ (what is normal anyway?), many teens around the world are now killing themselves because of the pressure to fit in, kids as young as 9 years old. The argument that I am making is that why are we not teaching our kids, or even ourselves to stand out from the rest, the characteristics we build in our teens will be the foundation of our adult life. My question to you is that do you want to be a sheep or a lion?
Following the crowd destroys our soul, and our uniqueness,a gift which will only shine if we use it and develop on it. Not only should we teach our kids to be different, but we ourselves should be living example of this. To not follow the crowd, and make it on our own, set about on a path different to the rest, requires strength and courage, it requires you to make fear your best friend, whereas following the crowd requires comfort in the safety in numbers.
It is about changing your views on life and grasp hold of a different perspective, be unique, have depth, character and strength, but most of all push these qualities onto your kids, brothers, sisters, ANYONE! too many people are becoming exact replicas of everyone else, do not let society do this to you. Acknowledge and awaken your consciousness and unconsciousness on the fact that every institution out there will try to manufacture you to be like everyone else, however YOU and only YOU hold the keys to release you from the shackles that society tries so hard to enforce onto you.
This world needs unique people with powerful ideas, following a crowd ensures that reinforcement of the many shared ideologies, which will impact on your view on life. The institutions I mentioned above come in the shape of schools and college even work forces. There is no escaping of this, the only way of keeping your mind strong and focused on you and your individuality is by arming yourself with the knowledge that this society doesn’t value uniqueness, it values categorisation, realising this will protect you from the socialisation of the mass crowd. Osho states that ‘The greatest fear in the world is of the opinion of others, and the moment you are unafraid of the crowd you are no longer a sheep, you become a lion. A great roar arises in your heart, the roar of freedom’
Thank you for reading this post, until next time…